On July 25, 2001, in the space of a moment, Kathleen Wakefield’s
life changed forever when a police chaplain knocked on her door and
informed her that her 21 year-old son, Jake, had died from a
self-inflicted gunshot wound. Jake’s suicide gave Kathleen a new life
goal, “It is my deepest desire to honor Jake’s life by educating teens
and young adults about depression and suicide.”
I NEED A LIGHTHOUSE (INAL) was established by Kathleen in 2001 to carry out the following mission:
To significantly reduce the loss and suffering from youth
depression, suicide and suicidal behavior in communities throughout the
region. INAL will be the leading provider of education programs that
increase the community’s awareness of the serious consequences
associated with depression and suicide among teens and young-adults,
and make it easy for at-risk youth to seek and obtain help.
Suicide Affects Thousands
Each year in the United States, more than 30,000 lives are cut short by
suicide. That means that suicide ends one life every 17 minutes. For
every life lost, thousands more are affected by the loss of a child,
parent, friend or co-worker. Suicide is the third leading cause of
death for young people (ages 10-24). According to the National
Institute of Mental Health, “more teenagers and young adults die from
suicide than from cancer, heart disease, AIDS, birth defects, stroke,
pneumonia and influenza, and chronic lung disease – COMBINED.”
Research has identified risk factors for suicide, providing hope for
treatment and prevention. The 2001 National Strategy for Suicide
Prevention, published by the US Department of Health and Human Services
gives a comprehensive list of risk factors for suicide, including: mood
disorders, and other psychological disorders, alcohol and substance
abuse disorders, and social isolation. Untreated, depression has been
identified as the leading cause of suicide.
Depression is treatable, suicide is not. We must focus on prevention,
addressing depression and related risk factors. Through education and
prevention, we can save lives and prevent needless suffering. I NEED A
LIGHTHOUSE is committed to educating teens and young adults about
depression and suicide in order to create a network of informed support
around those at-risk and ultimately to save lives.
Testimonials
"Through the diligent efforts of Kathy Wakefield's I Need a
Lighthouse, Virginia Beach teens are educated about the realities of
depression and suicide. Informed students are our first line of defense
in the battle to prevent the needless suffering and loss of life
associated with teen depression. I applaud Lighthouses' important work
in our city".
Jim Spore
City Manager
City of Virginia Beach
“I Need a Lighthouse works to ensure that teenagers and others have an
understating of mental health and the symptoms of depression in order
to assist them in realizing that they or their friends may need help.
They identify sources of help and support to minimize the risk that
depression may claim lives, especially young ones. As School Board
Chairman for Virginia Beach and the father of a daughter who took her
life I appreciate the work of I Need a Lighthouse and I support their
efforts.”
Dan Edwards
Chairman
Virginia Beach School Board